The branches of a tree may start out together when the tree is small, but as it grows, so does each branch. the definition of branch begins by describing it as a subdivision of the tree. Each subdivision or branch spreads out in different directions yet they are still connected to the trunk of the roots. Realizing this can help you rethink how you spend time with others including family. Especially those who may be toxic in your life. Developing healthy boundaries for yourself does not mean you are completely removing yourself from the tree, it simply means your branch needs to grow in another direction to create room for more subdivisions.
This pendant was given to me by my cousin who heard of my plans to create a family tree on our grandmother's property. I was captivated by how the large branches are on either side and they begin to produce smaller branches of their own. Since we have a large family there are some who are dysfunctional. Just remember that you are not obligated to grow in the same direction, but you can still have a genuine connection with other branches within the same family.
It has become my own source of motivation for this creative endeavor that I am working on.
Unhealthy family connections can directly impact your whole life. To create change you have to see things differently than you were taught and this may not be easy at first, but it does get better. Intentionally look for ways to instigate changes in your thinking. Remember that the goal is to heal to live this life victoriously!
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